July 12th (England) - Settling in

Paul greeted us coming into the house last night. Paul is a family friend of the friend that I am visiting (both of us are staying at his house now due to changing circumstances the last couple of weeks). He is also a 94-year-old man in perfect health except for his eyesight and hearing, which are only negligibly worse than the rest of him. But he still reads, talks on the telephone, drives, and works on his “tapestry” every day. He’s thrilled to have both Emilie and I here with him for the time being, and brags to everyone how he has two girls from Ohio to do his work for him.

The house itself is small, but cozy. Em and I sleep upstairs in the guest room, adjacent to a hallway overlooking the beautiful yard (pictured above). On the side of the house is a small sitting room where Paul allows me to practice violin. Downstairs is the kitchen and tea room, which opens out to the breakfast nook, a small cozy sun porch that overlooks the blossoming backyard. Stepping outside from the nook to the yard, I am swept up in the gentle scents of roses, lavender, honeysuckle, and sweet pea.

I thought when Paul mentioned two girls “working” for him it was a joke, but the first thing yesterday morning after breakfast he decided to send us out to pick berries in the garden. It was quite pleasant for a first experience in this new country – out in the comfort of a calm English backyard, picking fresh fruits – until I had my first experience with the stinging nettles, which I couldn’t seem to avoid…. In the end, Em and I picked nearly three pitchers-full of raspberries and currants, which are still sitting in the fridge waiting for us to do something with. Most likely we’ll make some currant jam one of these days… or just continue snacking on them raw.

Yesterday afternoon we attended the fete, a type of English fair that every town holds annually. Paul’s town’s fete was out on the green just across the street from his home, so we popped over for the afternoon. There were booths set up with food, games, and items to sell, mostly hand-crafted jewelry. At 4:00 a young group of guys in a rock band put on a set, so Paul went home and we girls stayed to hear the band. They did mostly covers, including (ironically) “Sweet Home Alabama” and one of our friends’ favorites, “500 Miles” by the Proclaimers.

Well, I guess I could have detailed everything in a little more structured way in this post, but my mind’s a bit fuzzy from the long couple of days of travel, and getting settled in. Tomorrow Emilie and I will travel to Winchester for the day, then from Tuesday-Friday we’ll be in London. Hopefully I’ll be able to have internet access sometime before the weekend, but in the meantime I'm just catching up on posting the last few days' writings as well as I can.

Till next time,
-Allie

July 11th - Travel

So, bracing myself for a long day, I headed for the station. (And it was a long day, so if you don’t have time to read a lengthy entry then stop here.)

As mentioned before, needing to stay in Rome was annoying, even though I knew it was necessary in order to catch the train. Obviously the first thought was to get a hotel, but this was just too expensive (from what I could find that night, prices ran from about €80-130 a room), so I decided to stay the night in the airport. Taking the 10:00 train from Arezzo left me arriving in Rome at about 12:30. When the security guard kicked me out of the station at 1, I knew I would be in for a long night – since now I didn’t have anywhere to stay, and seemingly no way to get to the airport, I didn’t exactly want to try to sleep on the street in a sketchy part of the city with a violin, purse, and suitcase around me. So I settled outside the station sitting on my luggage, and tried to think of ways to occupy myself until 5 a.m., when the next train would run to the airport.

Soon an old Indian taxi driver approached, asking if I needed a ride. When I told him no, I had already bought a train ticket for the next morning, he snapped out of business mode for a minute to advise me against staying where I was for the night. “Take a bus,” he said, switching to weak English, “there are many people drink tonight, dangerous for you.” He helped me find the bus times across the street, and left me there to wait for a shuttle bus to the airport that ran at 2:30 a.m. Even though I had already bought a ticket, I trusted both my gut instinct and a helpful stranger’s warning words and took the bus. Two separate fees was a small price to pay to ensure safety for the night.

The bus ride was mostly uneventful, and I had reached the point where I was beginning to be tired, so I started to doze off while driving across town. Suddenly I started awake seeing something out of the corner of my eye, and turned out the window to see the giant form of the Colosseum looming over the bus. It was lit up for nighttime, and since the curvature of the road wrapped closely around its borders, I was able to fully take in the view while we followed it for a good minute or two. As I gawked at the enormous stone structure, I didn’t have enough wits about me to pull out my camera... but I think this makes it more mysterious and fascinating to me as I will remember only its monstrous size sneaking up on me in the middle of the night.

I reached Fiumicino at about 3:30 a.m., and the place was almost totally deserted. Or so I thought, until I walked up the stairs looking for someplace to rest: there in front of me were probably 50 people stretched out on the couches, wrapped in blankets, luggage in piles on the floor next to them, no one awake. It was quiet and a little bit eerie, almost like an airport graveyard. I settled down for a nap, but only slept an hour or so until the place’s energy picked up again as passengers began to arrive to catch early-morning flights.

Going down to the gate around 7 a.m., I met a white-haired couple on my flight who were returning to Virginia from their 50th wedding anniversary trip to Italy. On seeing the violin, the husband said they had five children, all musical, one of them a pastor and one a missionary in Romania. We kept together while waiting, and they thanked me for “watching over” them while changing gates, even though the only thing I had done was to check the flight itinerary for the change.

The violin has become quite a conversation piece for travel. The next gate I met another couple who had been eyeing the case for several minutes before the man spoke up, asking if it was a violin or a viola. He is the director of music at a school in Hartford, and on further conversation I learned that their son is a singer and former member of Chanticleer, an internationally-known singing group who visited Oberlin last year and of which I own several CDs. I plan to read more about him when I have time.

The flight was uneventful, but quite scenic. The plane followed the Italian coast for most of the way (pictured above), and below the clouds, so I snapped pictures while traveling over the famed Isle of Elba and the beautiful Alps.

And then came customs.

I was stopped at the border getting into England for about two hours, where the workers held me as the desk as a traveler “under inspection.” The woman I talked to, an irritated-looking person with her hair pulled back in a tight bun and shiny pink lipstick that looked terrible, was entirely convinced that I was planning on doing something fishy while in the country. The problems she saw included:

-Me not having an address for where I was staying (of course I don’t have an address, I’m staying with a friend of my friend and my friend is the one taking me there)

-My friend being an American girl working with a family in England (this is probably the most legitimate, seeing as American nannies are illegal in this country without a visa, and the border control is wary… however, this is not the case with Emilie), and

-My “limited” cash supply (I told her I had 50 euro on my person and a couple thousand American dollars in credit).

To top things off, she decided to search every bit of my luggage. When she found my journal, she deliberately read as much of it as she could in the space of five minutes, and found one unfortunate sentence in my writing: “Now I don’t want to go to England.” The funny part of this (and what I explained to her, but in vain) is that if she had read the context, she would have seen that the implication was not that I didn’t want to go to England, but that I didn’t want to leave Italy. After two hours of interrogation, searching through my belongings, and making phone calls to the States, she pursed her bright pink lips up into a fake smile and reluctantly let me through. “But if I were you, I would strongly advise your nanny friend,” she added.

After nearly 24 straight hours of travel, Emilie finally picked me up, and I arrived at the house in Alton, about an hour south of London.

To be continued,
-Allie

July 10th - Leaving already?!

A few friends and I recently discovered a basement pizzeria near the convent, run by a high-energy, suntanned, middle-aged man who loves music. We were enjoying pizza and pasta there two nights ago when “Hotel California” came over the speakers, much to our delight. When he saw our reaction, he turned up the volume to fill the entire little restaurant, we being the only customers at the early hour of 8:00. Whenever he passed the table he played air guitar and sang along – I have to give him credit for knowing most of the words, even if they came out in a very thick Italian accent.

The picture above is the pizza margherita I ordered there. I swear, I'm never having Papa John's again.

I was met with a rude awakening yesterday when I found out I would have to leave Italy earlier than expected. The trains didn’t run early enough in the morning for me to make the airport in time for my flight if I took the group bus with the other students, which meant I would have to leave the previous evening and somehow stay in Rome overnight. So I quickly gathered myself, packed in about 20 minutes flat, and began to say my goodbyes. The students I wasn’t worried about – most of them I would see in Oberlin in a month anyhow – but I absolutely couldn’t leave without seeing a few people from the town.

Unfortunately, with this short notice change of plans there was no time to find so many of the locals that I had gotten to know. I don’t know if I’m disappointed about this, or if I’m glad – maybe too many goodbyes would have been too depressing. I knew I still had a long day of travel ahead and wanted to keep my spirits up as much as was possible under the circumstances. Maybe it’s also better to remember all the times I had talking with them, instead of my last memory being that of saying goodbye…. But there was one place that I had to go.

Going into Carlo’s shop, I approached with an unintentionally sad look on my face. Carlo frowned back at me as I walked in and asked what the matter was, and when I told him I had to leave that day instead of tomorrow, his face turned sad as well. As a formal goodbye, we exchanged home and email addresses, and Barbara gave me a thin cardboard tulip from the shop as a parting gift. Daniele, who I had texted to meet up there one last time, looked pretty shaken when he found out that I had to go so soon, which he quickly remedied with a cigarette. Then we all wandered outside and chatted for a few minutes; I asked Carlo if he would still be at the shop in a year, and with the customary accompanying hand gesture he answered, “Magari,” I hope so. I promised that if I were ever in town again I would come visit, and then left the two men standing by the rail smoking – just the way I first met them five weeks ago.

Later that night I passed by the cozy little shop one last time getting to the train station, but didn’t stop to go in, just waved to Carlo and yelled “ciao” in passing. I knew if I had gone in to say a final final goodbye I might not have gotten away without a few tears.

Closing the chapter on Italy,
-Allie